Looking life from afar and looking it close and personal,
can seriously change your perspective immediately.
Your optimism is strong,
as each encounter of a dilemma builds up a wall of resilience.
You like at yourself as if 'life sucks'.
It does, as it's inevitably true.
Nevertheless,
That's just an opinion.
Every opinion either kills us, or heals us.
But, it's only a perspective of an individual. Whether that person is significant or not in your life, it'll always be an opinion.
Nothing's really a fact.
Even for science. No theory can define what the future may hold. The process of a paradigm shift continues each lifetime, each oncoming generation and it changes.
Theory = statement with evidence whacked on and is seemed to be plausible.
But that's a different matter.
One of the best types of opinions in the optimistic, honest statements/compliments etc.
It's straightforward, it's not doubtful and it's hopeful. It can bring a smile.
There is no definition of life.
All we can do,
is to only think of possibilities of its purpose and meaning.